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	<description>My journey from Shy Guy to Player</description>
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		<title>Eliminate Your Excuses Not to Approach That Beautiful Girl</title>
		<description><![CDATA[There she is. A super pretty girl, standing by herself! Are you going to make a move? You think about approaching her, but your heart starts pounding, your mouth goes dry, and your palms go sweaty. You decide to pass her up, telling yourself lamely that you&#8217;ll approach the next hot girl &#8220;for sure.&#8221;
Don&#8217;t worry, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.shyplayer.com/2008/07/eliminate-your-excuses-not-to-approach-that-beautiful-girl/</link>
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		<title>Go Out Simply to Have Fun, or Go Out to Actively Sarge?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve actually heard this topic brought up a few times before. Simplified, the question is whether to:
1) Just have fun.
2) Actively pick up.
Scenario 1: &#8220;Just have fun, and don&#8217;t consciously worry about sarging.&#8221; Personally, this hasn&#8217;t worked out well for me. There were a number of approaches where I just had fun with a girl, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.shyplayer.com/2008/07/go-out-simply-to-have-fun-or-go-out-to-actively-sarge/</link>
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		<title>Axing Approach Anxiety</title>
		<description><![CDATA[How many times have you heard &#8220;just be yourself&#8221; from well-meaning friends and family members?
But when it comes to pickup, unless you are a total natural, I would respectfully disagree that &#8220;Just be yourself&#8221; is all you need to successfully approach and close women. Otherwise, that would mean that there is actually no reason for [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.shyplayer.com/2008/07/axing-approach-anxiety/</link>
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		<title>Some Notes on Set Management</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Whenever PUAs go out together and wing for each other, there is the potential for misunderstandings and stepped-on toes, especially for guys who have not winged for each other often.
To mitigate this problem, here are some general guidelines to make sure everyone has a good time and gets the girls that they want.
First of all, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.shyplayer.com/2008/07/some-notes-on-set-management/</link>
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		<title>Getting Better with Day2s</title>
		<description><![CDATA[If you don&#8217;t feel comfortable with Day2s, here are some quick suggestions on how to get better at them:
1. Do practice Day2s with girls you aren&#8217;t into (such as HB5s and HB6s). You can get a good feel for the Day2 venue, and you can practice your game without caring at all about messing up.
2. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://www.shyplayer.com/2008/06/getting-better-with-day2s/</link>
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