Sex toys have been around in one form or another for hundreds of years but they are becoming more popular than ever in advanced day society. Frequently referred to as marital aids, sex toysaid sexual pleasure for couples or for solo use. A recent study of the Temptations Direct website purchaser figures illustrates that the proportion of men and women purchasing marital aids is a fairly even split with 52% of women and 48% of men being purchasers. If you are new to sex toys and want to try them out for the first time to heighten you and your partners sexual satisfaction and spice up your bedroom activities but are unsure what sort of toy to buy, this guide will help you to decide what to do.

What type of marital aid is the best to begin with?

Which sex toys to begin with is one of the first things to consider when thinking about the potential purchase of sex toys? Adult toys come in many different guises: dildos, cock rings, anal adult toys, male and female sex {pumps~pumps for ladies and men~penis pumps, clitoral pumps}, blow up dolls, strap ons and vibrators to name but a few. If you want to experience a penetrative marital aid for the first time it is a good idea to try something that has some degree of flexibility such as a jelly dildo. Non penetrative adult toys such as cock rings that are made of silicon or rubber have some give in them and can help to keep up an hard-on which is fuller and firmer that can lead to increased sexual gratification for both parties. These cock rings have far more flexibility than rigid metal cock rings, which cause considerable limitation to the wearer.

Size and cost concerns

Other important factors to consider are size and cost.  Start small and work up to bigger adult toys when you have more experience. Mini vibrators deliver a marvellous orgasm but are small enough to be carried just about anyplace. You also do not want to spend a considerable amount on your initial purchase if you are unsure whether you will enjoy the experience of a marital aid. Small vibrators start from as low as £4, jelly dildos are anything from £10 and cock rings retail from as little as £2 and hence do not result in a major outgoing.

Use sexual lubes

If you are a beginner to penetrative adult toys it is forever advisable to use a sexual lubricant. This is specially important in the use of anal adult toys  as neither the anus nor the rectum naturally sustain their own lubrication so it is important that anal lubrication is used for more fun and comfortable anal marital aid pursuits. Moreover, some anal gels and sprays are specifically designed to sort out the tissues surrounding the anus and relax the anal muscles, therefore making penetration considerably pleasurable}. Anal finger stimulators are ideal for first timers to anal play as not only are they small and inexpensive but they are often made of soft silicone making penetration far more enjoyable.

Sex toy cleaner

On purchasing your marital aid you should also consider buying a sex toy cleaner. Cheap to buy, this additional item should be utilised immediately after sex toy use to keep it clean. Safe, effective and ant-bacterial, adult toy cleaners help to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria and help to keep your marital aid last for longer.